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Typical responses to grief

• Shock and disbelief: immediately after experiencing or learning such events, many people may feel numb, or feel like such events can’t quite be real.
• Speculation about what happened, and seeking more information, such as talking to others about what each know or have heard.
• Physical reactions including fatigue, nightmares, exhaustion, and health problems.
• Cognitive reactions including difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or memory problems.
• Emotional reactions including fear, guilt, anxiety, depression, feelings of helplessness, and anger.
• Wanting to check in with loved ones, even if they are not close by. It is normal to want to touch base with someone you care about.
• In the hours and days following such events, the shock begins to wear off, and more feelings may emerge. It is important to share these feelings with people that you trust.

Coping suggestions

• Do activities to de-stress and help yourself to feel safe.
• Structure your time — keep busy.
• Give yourself permission to have feelings and to share those feelings w/others.
• Help your fellow students by checking out how they’re doing.
• Talk to others — this is the most healing medicine.
• Listen to others — reassure them that they are safe, don’t take their feelings personally.
• Don’t scapegoat.
• Don’t blame yourself.
• Don’t turn to alcohol or drugs.
• Keep your life as normal as possible.
• Keep a journal.
• Reassure yourself that a wide range of reactions and feelings are normal.
• Remind yourself that DU takes your safety seriously and is doing everything possible to keep you safe.

Circumstances or signs that may lead you to seek additional counseling support

• Memories of previous loss, trauma, or crisis that you have faced
• Experiencing heightened feelings of anxiety, fear for your safety, or rage
• Crying more than usual in response to sadness

What is it?

Fever is a signal that all is not quite well. It is a symptom, not a disease in itself. Body temperature varies throughout the day. It is usually lower in the morning and higher in the late afternoon and evening. Body temperature is affected by exercise and the temperature around us. A fever is a body temperature over 99.6 degrees by mouth.

What causes it?

A fever is the body’s response to various infections and certain other conditions.

What should you do about it?

The following treatment will help you feel more comfortable:

• Don’t wear an excess of clothing or bundle in heavy blanket. This may make the fever go higher. Instead, use usual clothing and covers.
• You may take acetaminophen or ibuprofen in the usually doses recommended over the counter to reduce temperature – usually 1000 mg of acetaminophen or 400 mg of ibuprofen every 4 hours for an adult.
• Bathing or showering with lukewarm water can also reduce fever. Avoid cold or hot showers or baths.

Remember…

• A fever, although uncomfortable, is not usually harmful in itself.
• Treating fever will not affect the underlying problem; it will make you feel more comfortable.

Fatigue: When to rest, when to worry

Some days you’re so low on energy that you’re drowsy by lunchtime and in need of a nap by mid-afternoon. What’s making you so tired all the time?  Stress, poor eating habits, overwork, even medical treatments can wear you down. Maybe it’s just a normal part of life.

But sudden or persistent fatigue, despite adequate rest, may mean it’s time for you to consult your doctor. Unrelenting exhaustion may be a sign of an underlying medical problem.

Whatever the cause, once you discover what’s draining your energy, you can take steps to put the vitality back in your life.

Why so weary?

Taking a quick inventory of the things that might be responsible for your exhaustion is the first step toward relief. Fatigue can have a variety of lifestyle causes, including:

• Lack of sleep. Getting even an hour less than the sound slumber you need each night can leave you drowsy and unable to manage your daily routine. You may not go to bed early enough. Or more likely, you go to bed but can’t sleep well. As you get older, it becomes harder to get uninterrupted sleep. You sleep less soundly. You awaken earlier.
• Stress and anxiety. If you’re running from one task to the next without a break, it’s eventually going to wear you down. Going through life anxious and on edge can keep you from relaxing and getting the rest you need.
• Inactivity. You’re too tired to exercise, so you don’t. But then when you do exert yourself, you tire easily because you’re out of shape. Engaging in moderate physical activity for a half-hour most days of the week may decrease stress, improve mood and leave you feeling energized. Don’t schedule your activity too close to bedtime, though, or you might have trouble falling asleep.
• Eating habits. If you’re not eating properly or drinking enough fluids, your body isn’t getting the fuel and fluid it needs. Trying to remedy this with caffeine can backfire, especially if you consume it late in the day. Caffeine not only makes it harder to fall asleep, it also interferes with sound sleep and may keep you tossing and turning throughout the night.
• Certain medications.  Some medications, including many beta blockers and antihistamines, can cause fatigue. In addition, some cold medications and pain relievers contain caffeine and other stimulants that can keep you up at night.

Fighting back against fatigue

To beat fatigue, try these tips:

• Reduce stress – Take some of the pressure out of your day. Learn to say no. Set priorities. Then organize your activities so that you avoid confusion. Pace yourself. Put aside time each day to do something you enjoy. Take a midday stroll around the block, or get up 15 minutes earlier to give yourself more time to start your day.
• Manage workplace tension – On the job aggravation can add to work-related fatigue. Sit down and try to resolve conflicts with co-workers. Become better acquainted with your boss and clarify what he or she needs from you. Be realistic about your limitations. Take time out to get up from your desk and stretch for a few moments several times a day.
• Be active – Try to include at least 30 minutes of moderate physical activity in your day. Don’t worry about doing a full workout all at once;; start with 10 minutes of activity at a time. Whether you walk, garden, or swim, once you get moving, you’ll likely notice you have more stamina. While 30 minutes is the minimum recommendation, you may need up to an hour of moderate activity daily to maintain fitness and a healthy weight.
• Eat well -Start your day with a low-fat, high-fiber breakfast that includes plenty of complex carbohydrates, such as whole grains and fruits for lasting energy. Stay away from sugary cereals and juices and caffeinated drinks. They can make you feel sluggish later in the day. Don’t skip meals; refuel every three or four hours. Very low calorie diets are guaranteed to increase fatigue.
• Avoid alcohol -Alcohol depresses your central nervous system and acts as a sedative, making you tired for hours after consuming no more than only a drink or two. It may also disrupt your sleep, if you drink before bed.
• Practice good sleep habits -Avoid eating, reading or watching TV in bed. Keep your bedroom cool, dark and quiet. And set your alarm for the same time each day; the routine can help you establish a regular sleep schedule. Naps are OK, but keep them short and early in the day. Schedule workouts at least six hours before bedtime. Small snacks may help you drift off, but large late-night meals can keep you up. If you can’t sleep, don’t toss and turn, go into another part of the house and read or relax until you feel drowsy.

When to see your doctor about fatigue?

Fatigue also can be a symptom of illness or a side effect of medical treatment. In general, talk to your doctor if you’re extremely tired or unable to regain your energy after several weeks of increased rest.